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Top 25 Women Sex Questions
1. If my feller ejaculates near my private parts but not inside me, will I become pregnant?
Theoretically, Yes, because all that is necessary is a little semen. With a million or so sperms to
get near the vagina and vulva, there is that one solitary sperm doing his best to bravely swim
through your clothes and latch on to your egg. But it is not likely unless there is penetration.
2. What if I have sex during my period, am I safe from being pregnant?
Actually no and whoever told you that was pulling your panties!!!-It is possible to become
pregnant during your period.
3. What am I do if I have missed taking a birth control pill?
Well, you still have a chance of avoiding pregnancy if you take not one but two pills the very
next day. I assume that you have done so. But if you have goofed up and missed this
opportunity then the day after that you can take three pills and keep your fingers crossed. But if
the memory lapse continues then call up your healthcare provide and seek her advice. It pays to
make sure you have set of condoms and a spermicide as a back-up.
4. Suppose I douche immediately after sex, will that stop me from becoming pregnant?
Au contraire, if you have been under the impression that a douche will help wash out the
sperms, you would be sadly mistaken. Those hardy sperms will have already gained a foothold. In
fact, douching will increase the probability of you picking up an STD.
5. Will I become pregnant if I get oral sex?
Do you believe in unicorns and flying dragons or you want to join the Hogwarts School of Magic? I
thought not. Oral sex will not make you pregnant but it can very well give you a STD and that
includes HIV/AIDS.
6. Will I become pregnant the first time I have sex?
Are you being hopeful or are you in dread? There is every possibility of becoming pregnant the
very first time you have sex. There are several birth control measures that will actually lessen the
chances of you becoming pregnant. But there is no particular birth control that can give you a
100 % guarantee and what I suggest may be well nigh impossible and that is to keep off sex like
the blazes.
7. If a feller ejaculates on my underwear or over my clothing do you think I will become
pregnant?
Theoretically, it is possible. You see, it works like this. There are a couple of million sperm that
are out there, well literally, and all eager to get inside you even through your clothes. But this is
one chance in say 10,000. So the odds are in your favor. But in practice, clothes are a porous
barrier and in a way it is mass suicide of all those sperms. Penetration either fully or even
partially is all that is needed to make you become pregnant
8. Is there any particular position in which we can have sex, so that I will not become pregnant?
Even if you both assume one of the twisted sex-yoga positions that aging flower children love to
exhibit in one of those Haight-Asbury parks, and as long as there is genital to genital or near
genital contact, you will still become pregnant. Making him stand on his head and impaling
yourself on him, you still get pregnant. There is no such thing as safe-sex position. Someone has
been conning you, that’s for sure.
9. I think my breasts are of different sizes. Is it okay? Am I ok?
There is no such thing as an identical pair of boobs. You must have read that in Playboy!!! Get
this right, it is normal and it is also common to have breasts of different sizes. And stop looking
in the mirror again and again checking out your breasts. You are as normal as one can be. Breasts
are as varied as a bunch of fruits, big, small, medium, sort of flat sometimes round and
sometimes full… Just like women come in all sizes and shapes, so do breasts.
10. Is it true that date rape drugs, like GHB, prevent pregnancy?
Where did you hear that? Date rape drugs are simply sophisticated Mickey Finns, to knock you
out or make you so woozy that you are not aware of what is happening to you. If you think you
have been given a date rape drug, you stand a chance of being raped or gang- raped and you are
also in danger of picking up an STD or HIV/AIDS virus apart from becoming pregnant.
11. Say I’m on the pill, will it protect me from STDs/HIV/AIDS?
The sole purpose of the pill is to stop you from becoming pregnant. Nothing more and nothing
less! Till the boffins in labs all over the world come up with a multipurpose pill, you’re only
chance of avoiding HIV/AIDS or any other STD is to either give up sex and become a living saint
or use a birth control method. I suggest a birth control method.
12. Will sex be painful the very first time? Will there be blood?
It is not supposed to be painful if you are having sex for the first time or every time. It is not
some Gospel rule that women should the bleed the very first time they have sex. It is a carry-
over from the early male dominated societies when women were like prized cattle, the more
pure and virgin, the better. It is utter nonsense. What little bleeding that takes place is usually
due to a ruptured or broken hymen. The hymen which covers the vaginal opening can become
ruptured or torn from any number of causes, from exercises to jogging, from horseback riding to
running up the stairs. Then you may be that one in a 10,000 who does not have a hymen. The
simplest cause for pain during sex is that you have not been aroused enough and as a
consequence your vagina is not lubricated for the penis to slide in. But if it is happening every
time then it could be due to some past trauma or some other physical reason. Why not take a
deep breath, see you feel better, take several deep breaths and take a walk to your doctor and
talk to her. Take my word for it. It will help.
13. If I have a yeast infection, is it okay to have sex?
Watch out, kid, you may be spreading it along to your partner and if he is antsy, then he in turn
is passing it to someone else. So lay off sex till you are cured. Yeast infections are not the Great
Plague and can be easily cured.
14. Can there be a ‘longest-lasting position’ for a man?
You are, I think, an eternal optimist. Sex does not go on and on. It peaks and ejaculates. Then it
is possible there is another erection followed by a resolution and then it’s a sort of peters out.
May be if your partner is like Mike Tyson, then it could go on and off for some more time. Trying
different sex positions will make it look like it is longer and of course it is definitely more fun
15. How can I get my feller to be more masterful in bed?
You want some kind of freak or what? Millions of women have been burning their bras and yelling
for sexual equality and here you want to know how he can be masterful. There is no accounting
for tastes, lassie, that’s for sure. Why not try to be a little aggressive, bite him, pin his wrists
down with a little wrastlin’ so that he gets the message and repays in kind. But is your guy
capable of biting back. What if he backs off? Try it out, only do not make out like you’re the
Black Widow Spider or the female Praying Mantis!!!
16. My man’s penis is kinda small. What can I do to make it feel bigger?
You mean it looks small or have you been going around with a tape-measure? Girlie, it is not the
size but how he does it. Try some different positions, say like doggy style and it may work. The
second part of your question can be answered this way. Tie a pair of dumbbells to his penis and
in about 20 years or so it will be stretched like a noodle and you can exhibit him in a ‘Ripley’s
Believe it or Not’ circus and make a lot of money. Does that answer your question!!!
17. Is a female condom as safe as a male condom?
Not quite. Female condoms like vaginal dams are dicey as there is always the risk of semen
slipping through. Make him wear a condom too and that will increase the odds in your favor.
18. How can I have sex during my period without making a mess?
Try doing it under the shower as the sharp jets of water will make both of you tingle and wash
away the blood. Come off it, it is no big deal. Place a towel underneath you. It is as simple as
that.
19. Will the size of the vagina make a difference?
The vagina is designed to expand so that the baby can pass through. So it is geared to accept
any penis, from long ones to short stumpy ones and the guy will not be in a position to notice as
they will be too occupied.
20. Is there such a thing as a"safe time" to have sexual intercourse?
This is ‘safe time’ stuff is okay if your good at numbers and can add without using your toes. For
starters pregnancy can only occur within days following ovulation (the release of an egg). So you
need to calculate when ovulation occurs. This normally happens in the middle of a woman's
menstrual cycle, between her periods. But the bad luck is that most women have no guaranteed
way of knowing exactly when they are ovulating, so there is no such thing "safe" time to have
unprotected sex. Sperms can hardy little fellows and can hang about in the vagina for several
days while they wait for an egg to be released, and the egg itself takes several days to travel to
the uterus. What this means is that a woman can become pregnant over quite a long period of
time. That is why even unprotected sex during a woman's period can sometimes result in
pregnancy. If you have irregular periods and in fact many girls do in the first few years of
menstruation, the "safe" days can be particularly difficult to predict. Some couples do use the so-
called 'rhythm' method as a form of contraception (i.e. only having sex on certain days but a
disaster if you have forgotten whether it is be on a Wednesday or a Friday !) , but the success
rate naturally is not high, and, it provides no protection from STDs such as HIV.
21. Can a woman become pregnant as a result of anal sex?
Well, yes and no. If some semen has leaked from the anus and dribbled into the vagina, then you
are in dire straits. So, anal sex is not quite the best way of avoiding pregnancy on a long term
basis. I suggest that both of you use contraception methods like the birth control pill or
condoms.
22. Can a woman become pregnant through oral sex if she swallows sperm?
Only if you are a species of Sea Horse or a particular species of frog found only in the Matto Gross
mountains of South America!!! No, you cannot become pregnant if you have oral sex even if you
have swallowed the stuff. A woman can become only if sperm get inside her vagina.
23. Do women too masturbate? And do women masturbate as often as men?
The Masters and Johnson Report and several other reports have said that more than 40 % of
women have admitted to masturbating while it is about 60 % for men. That women did
masturbate was known from early times but it was sort of kept within the closet for a long time.
Attitudes have changed the world over and it has been proved beyond doubt that masturbation
is not harmful and women do masturbate. For many it is a way of releasing stress and just being
comfortable with oneself.
24. What 'counts' as losing your virginity?
Where are you? In the Dark Ages? Jokes apart, it is the cultural thing and people across the world
have different notions. But it is assumed that if a man has had penetrative sex with a woman
then he or she has lost his or her virginity. But it is more of a “much ado about nothing.”
25.Does ’pulling out’ in time help?
“Don’t worry, honey, I will pull out in time” has been the time-honored wheeze for getting a girl
into bed. Let me tell the facts of life, sweetheart. This method is only about 75 to 95% safe but
it depends on your guy, on his self-control which will be precarious as he hovers on the brink, on
his experience or your trust. Read More...
1. If my feller ejaculates near my private parts but not inside me, will I become pregnant?
Theoretically, Yes, because all that is necessary is a little semen. With a million or so sperms to
get near the vagina and vulva, there is that one solitary sperm doing his best to bravely swim
through your clothes and latch on to your egg. But it is not likely unless there is penetration.
2. What if I have sex during my period, am I safe from being pregnant?
Actually no and whoever told you that was pulling your panties!!!-It is possible to become
pregnant during your period.
3. What am I do if I have missed taking a birth control pill?
Well, you still have a chance of avoiding pregnancy if you take not one but two pills the very
next day. I assume that you have done so. But if you have goofed up and missed this
opportunity then the day after that you can take three pills and keep your fingers crossed. But if
the memory lapse continues then call up your healthcare provide and seek her advice. It pays to
make sure you have set of condoms and a spermicide as a back-up.
4. Suppose I douche immediately after sex, will that stop me from becoming pregnant?
Au contraire, if you have been under the impression that a douche will help wash out the
sperms, you would be sadly mistaken. Those hardy sperms will have already gained a foothold. In
fact, douching will increase the probability of you picking up an STD.
5. Will I become pregnant if I get oral sex?
Do you believe in unicorns and flying dragons or you want to join the Hogwarts School of Magic? I
thought not. Oral sex will not make you pregnant but it can very well give you a STD and that
includes HIV/AIDS.
6. Will I become pregnant the first time I have sex?
Are you being hopeful or are you in dread? There is every possibility of becoming pregnant the
very first time you have sex. There are several birth control measures that will actually lessen the
chances of you becoming pregnant. But there is no particular birth control that can give you a
100 % guarantee and what I suggest may be well nigh impossible and that is to keep off sex like
the blazes.
7. If a feller ejaculates on my underwear or over my clothing do you think I will become
pregnant?
Theoretically, it is possible. You see, it works like this. There are a couple of million sperm that
are out there, well literally, and all eager to get inside you even through your clothes. But this is
one chance in say 10,000. So the odds are in your favor. But in practice, clothes are a porous
barrier and in a way it is mass suicide of all those sperms. Penetration either fully or even
partially is all that is needed to make you become pregnant
8. Is there any particular position in which we can have sex, so that I will not become pregnant?
Even if you both assume one of the twisted sex-yoga positions that aging flower children love to
exhibit in one of those Haight-Asbury parks, and as long as there is genital to genital or near
genital contact, you will still become pregnant. Making him stand on his head and impaling
yourself on him, you still get pregnant. There is no such thing as safe-sex position. Someone has
been conning you, that’s for sure.
9. I think my breasts are of different sizes. Is it okay? Am I ok?
There is no such thing as an identical pair of boobs. You must have read that in Playboy!!! Get
this right, it is normal and it is also common to have breasts of different sizes. And stop looking
in the mirror again and again checking out your breasts. You are as normal as one can be. Breasts
are as varied as a bunch of fruits, big, small, medium, sort of flat sometimes round and
sometimes full… Just like women come in all sizes and shapes, so do breasts.
10. Is it true that date rape drugs, like GHB, prevent pregnancy?
Where did you hear that? Date rape drugs are simply sophisticated Mickey Finns, to knock you
out or make you so woozy that you are not aware of what is happening to you. If you think you
have been given a date rape drug, you stand a chance of being raped or gang- raped and you are
also in danger of picking up an STD or HIV/AIDS virus apart from becoming pregnant.
11. Say I’m on the pill, will it protect me from STDs/HIV/AIDS?
The sole purpose of the pill is to stop you from becoming pregnant. Nothing more and nothing
less! Till the boffins in labs all over the world come up with a multipurpose pill, you’re only
chance of avoiding HIV/AIDS or any other STD is to either give up sex and become a living saint
or use a birth control method. I suggest a birth control method.
12. Will sex be painful the very first time? Will there be blood?
It is not supposed to be painful if you are having sex for the first time or every time. It is not
some Gospel rule that women should the bleed the very first time they have sex. It is a carry-
over from the early male dominated societies when women were like prized cattle, the more
pure and virgin, the better. It is utter nonsense. What little bleeding that takes place is usually
due to a ruptured or broken hymen. The hymen which covers the vaginal opening can become
ruptured or torn from any number of causes, from exercises to jogging, from horseback riding to
running up the stairs. Then you may be that one in a 10,000 who does not have a hymen. The
simplest cause for pain during sex is that you have not been aroused enough and as a
consequence your vagina is not lubricated for the penis to slide in. But if it is happening every
time then it could be due to some past trauma or some other physical reason. Why not take a
deep breath, see you feel better, take several deep breaths and take a walk to your doctor and
talk to her. Take my word for it. It will help.
13. If I have a yeast infection, is it okay to have sex?
Watch out, kid, you may be spreading it along to your partner and if he is antsy, then he in turn
is passing it to someone else. So lay off sex till you are cured. Yeast infections are not the Great
Plague and can be easily cured.
14. Can there be a ‘longest-lasting position’ for a man?
You are, I think, an eternal optimist. Sex does not go on and on. It peaks and ejaculates. Then it
is possible there is another erection followed by a resolution and then it’s a sort of peters out.
May be if your partner is like Mike Tyson, then it could go on and off for some more time. Trying
different sex positions will make it look like it is longer and of course it is definitely more fun
15. How can I get my feller to be more masterful in bed?
You want some kind of freak or what? Millions of women have been burning their bras and yelling
for sexual equality and here you want to know how he can be masterful. There is no accounting
for tastes, lassie, that’s for sure. Why not try to be a little aggressive, bite him, pin his wrists
down with a little wrastlin’ so that he gets the message and repays in kind. But is your guy
capable of biting back. What if he backs off? Try it out, only do not make out like you’re the
Black Widow Spider or the female Praying Mantis!!!
16. My man’s penis is kinda small. What can I do to make it feel bigger?
You mean it looks small or have you been going around with a tape-measure? Girlie, it is not the
size but how he does it. Try some different positions, say like doggy style and it may work. The
second part of your question can be answered this way. Tie a pair of dumbbells to his penis and
in about 20 years or so it will be stretched like a noodle and you can exhibit him in a ‘Ripley’s
Believe it or Not’ circus and make a lot of money. Does that answer your question!!!
17. Is a female condom as safe as a male condom?
Not quite. Female condoms like vaginal dams are dicey as there is always the risk of semen
slipping through. Make him wear a condom too and that will increase the odds in your favor.
18. How can I have sex during my period without making a mess?
Try doing it under the shower as the sharp jets of water will make both of you tingle and wash
away the blood. Come off it, it is no big deal. Place a towel underneath you. It is as simple as
that.
19. Will the size of the vagina make a difference?
The vagina is designed to expand so that the baby can pass through. So it is geared to accept
any penis, from long ones to short stumpy ones and the guy will not be in a position to notice as
they will be too occupied.
20. Is there such a thing as a"safe time" to have sexual intercourse?
This is ‘safe time’ stuff is okay if your good at numbers and can add without using your toes. For
starters pregnancy can only occur within days following ovulation (the release of an egg). So you
need to calculate when ovulation occurs. This normally happens in the middle of a woman's
menstrual cycle, between her periods. But the bad luck is that most women have no guaranteed
way of knowing exactly when they are ovulating, so there is no such thing "safe" time to have
unprotected sex. Sperms can hardy little fellows and can hang about in the vagina for several
days while they wait for an egg to be released, and the egg itself takes several days to travel to
the uterus. What this means is that a woman can become pregnant over quite a long period of
time. That is why even unprotected sex during a woman's period can sometimes result in
pregnancy. If you have irregular periods and in fact many girls do in the first few years of
menstruation, the "safe" days can be particularly difficult to predict. Some couples do use the so-
called 'rhythm' method as a form of contraception (i.e. only having sex on certain days but a
disaster if you have forgotten whether it is be on a Wednesday or a Friday !) , but the success
rate naturally is not high, and, it provides no protection from STDs such as HIV.
21. Can a woman become pregnant as a result of anal sex?
Well, yes and no. If some semen has leaked from the anus and dribbled into the vagina, then you
are in dire straits. So, anal sex is not quite the best way of avoiding pregnancy on a long term
basis. I suggest that both of you use contraception methods like the birth control pill or
condoms.
22. Can a woman become pregnant through oral sex if she swallows sperm?
Only if you are a species of Sea Horse or a particular species of frog found only in the Matto Gross
mountains of South America!!! No, you cannot become pregnant if you have oral sex even if you
have swallowed the stuff. A woman can become only if sperm get inside her vagina.
23. Do women too masturbate? And do women masturbate as often as men?
The Masters and Johnson Report and several other reports have said that more than 40 % of
women have admitted to masturbating while it is about 60 % for men. That women did
masturbate was known from early times but it was sort of kept within the closet for a long time.
Attitudes have changed the world over and it has been proved beyond doubt that masturbation
is not harmful and women do masturbate. For many it is a way of releasing stress and just being
comfortable with oneself.
24. What 'counts' as losing your virginity?
Where are you? In the Dark Ages? Jokes apart, it is the cultural thing and people across the world
have different notions. But it is assumed that if a man has had penetrative sex with a woman
then he or she has lost his or her virginity. But it is more of a “much ado about nothing.”
25.Does ’pulling out’ in time help?
“Don’t worry, honey, I will pull out in time” has been the time-honored wheeze for getting a girl
into bed. Let me tell the facts of life, sweetheart. This method is only about 75 to 95% safe but
it depends on your guy, on his self-control which will be precarious as he hovers on the brink, on
his experience or your trust. Read More...
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