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Top 25 Men Sex Questions
1. Are there any long-term effects of masturbating? Will I still be able to father children?
You bet there are!!! That, you are in love with yourself. Have you given it a name yet? Surely in
this day and age you must know that there are long terms or short term effects of masturbation.
Take the great Roman era of philosophy and you had all these extraordinary thinkers sitting in
the Senate and being masturbated during a typical Roman orgy and these guys then went home
and wrote lines like: Nec scit qua sit iter. That’s from Ovid’s Metamorphoses II and means’ He
knows not which way to turn…!” But then there are people who never masturbate who are ever
ready to shy away from their penises, or vaginas like the slated snail. Then there are others who
do it a couple of times a day and some who a couple of times a year just to keep in touch for old
times sake. And some who can’t stop. If you think that when couples get married they stop, you
would be wrong. There are many who enjoy mutual masturbation. None of the masturbators
have gone round the bend, they are as normal as can be. Yeah, even if you masturbate regularly
you can still produce healthy sperm.
2. Am I going to get AIDS if I'm gay?
You do not have to gay to be AIDs. It is typecasting to say that AIDs is linked to gays. In fact
men having sex with men (MSMs) are at a higher risk. It’s just that having multiple partners and
certain types of sexual activity places you at a greater risk of acquiring AIDS. Any of those listed
can cause AIDS:
• Anal sex, • Vaginal sex • Sharing sex toys
Some gay men as well as some straight men and women have anal sex which can be a high risk
activity. Using a condom protects you from HIV and other STI's.
3. I nicked my penis while shaving my pubic hair; does it increase my chances of Sexually
Transmitted Infection’s (STI's)?
Why on earth didn’t you use one of those modern razors that are supposed to prevent nicks?
Yes, a nick on your penis can put you at risk because bacteria and other viruses can make a
beeline to that little nick and make life miserable for you. You could get a nasty infection or
worse. Time to get out that carton of condoms out and use them when having oral, anal or
vaginal sex and you will have less chances of picking up an STI... Better safe than sorry, I always
say.
4. What is the right thickness of a penis for satisfactory sex? If it so, how do I get to be as
thick. Do you think there are special exercises to keep my penis in good condition?
I think you are a bit thick to be asking this question. It is all in the technique and a lot of
foreplay, and size does not matter. Exercises? You can’t walk into a gym and ask for equipment.
There is no such thing as an exercise for the penis. There are expensive operations to thicken
the penis and they are not worth it. Like the guy who had silicone gel sheaths implanted and
then one day while things were getting into the Third Base Stage, the silicon slipped and got
stuck on the underside of the penis and the guy was left with an organ that looked like a
turnip!!!
5. I m bullied because of my Penis size.
These things happen. Calvin gets bullied all the time in school but that kid has attitude and he
has Hobbies. But if a boy is being bullied then it is wise to see what is meant by being bullied, if
it just plain school field rough and tumble then nothing is gained by cosseting the boy but If it
worse ,then a talk with an adult or a school teacher or the coach will work wonders.
6. Will I get HIV if I have or give oral sex? If I smooch a person who has HIV, will I get infected?
Are condoms 100 % effective against HIV? I am worried.
The answer is yes to two of your questions and no to the last. If there are blisters or cuts in
your mouth than there is every possibility of getting infected in a long smooch. Either fellatio or
cunnilingus with a person who is already infected puts you at high risk. A condom is no
guarantee against an HIV strain, so watch it.
7. What is the average size of the human testis? Does variation in size matter in sperm
production? I did not consult anyone in this regard...nor any test done.
Research exploring the relationship between testis size and sperm production indicate that in
those men with normal sperm production the length of the testis should be greater than 4 cms.
And volume greater than 20 ml. On an average, the adult testis measures 4.5 cm x 2.8 cm. Minor
variations in size may not show noticeable changes in spermatogenesis, but on the whole,
decreased testis size or volume is often associated with impaired sperm production .Please
remember that spermatogenesis depends on many other factors, so that men with identical
testis size do not necessarily produce sperm with identical properties.
8. I am 26 years old. I have sex with my wife three or four times in the day. Is excessive sex
bad? Are we getting addicted to sex? Then I don’t want my wife to pregnant just yet may be
after a couple of years. What do we do?
Relax, it’s no big deal. Your desire to go at it like a pair of rabbits will come down to three or
four times a week. If you don’t want her to get pregnant, then one of you must use one of the
many contraceptive methods. I suggest you talk to your gynecologist. Meanwhile a condom and a
vaginal pessary will do the needful and stop that poor sperm from making any headway.
9. If a girl doesn't have an orgasm is there a possibility of her becoming pregnant?
You think when she doesn’t moan and squirm and wrap her legs around your neck and attempt
to strangle you, she won’t become pregnant? You are one misguided Joe. Orgasm has nothing to
do with becoming pregnant and all it requires is for some per-ejaculate semen to cause a
pregnancy.
10. Can it be said that I masturbate too much?
Are you in training for some Olympiad? If you have been ignoring your friends, your daily showers
and your pizzas, then we can safely come to the conclusion that you are indeed masturbating
too much. Hope this is not the case with you.
11. We have been married for 13 years and my wife now complains that she never had an
orgasm. Extending foreplay for an hour has not helped and she also says that my penis which is
about six inches long when erect is the problem. But she has an orgasm when she masturbates.
This is bugging me. What am I supposed to do?
Stimulate her till orgasms by using your fingers. Then see if you can give her an orgasm through
sex. If you have finished earlier, use your finger again to stimulate her. A lot of women reach
orgasm through masturbation.
12. I think I ejaculate less, there is very little semen when I masturbate. I am only 24 years
old. Am I headed towards impotency?
No, you are not going to become impotent. As far as the quantity is concerned there are several
factors like the periods of abstinence, hormone levels and age. As you grow older, the color of
semen changes from white to light yellow and the quantity may decrease. But color and quantity
have nothing to do with the virility of an individual.
13. I am getting married very soon and I am in my 30s. I think my penis is slightly deformed.
Will this hamper my sex life?
It is normal for a penis to be bent slightly to one side and there is nothing wrong with it. It is
natural and will in no way hamper your sex life. If you are still in doubt you can always see a
specialist.
14. I am very interested in sex and I ejaculate quickly after masturbation. Too quickly, I think.
Is there anything I should do?
Who isn’t interested in sex? Right from the days when man learnt to speak and grunt, “How
about it, baby,” sex has been on the mind of every red-blooded male. Unless he is past it and
can only look and wonder! Premature ejaculation could be the result of getting a little too
excited but tends to go away by itself after a couple of years of marriage or as you grow a little
older and wiser! Relax, the more you worry the more the problem will persist. Let nature take
care of things for a while.
15. Being around women gives me an erection. Even walking along with a woman becomes an
embarrassing problem. I am 30 years old. What do I do?
You are one horny, red-necked hustler, that’s for sure. Who is your tailor? If Konrad Lorenz was
given your case file or even Desmond Morris, then they would have said that you have not made
the transition from ape to man. Maybe you are the Missing Link! “Hyper-excitable and
repressive” the shrinks would have chortled. Human sexual response differs from animal sexual
response. It is the advanced brain that controls these responses in you. Perhaps you also have
had problems in your very early sexual grounding and ways of conditioning Have you tried taking
up some hobby , maybe good feminist suffragette literature ought to calm you down. Also try
masturbating often. That ought to keep you down.
16. If I get circumcised will I be protected against HIV?
Nope, it does not make you as invulnerable as Spiderman or the Hulk, to HIV. But it is less likely
to happen.
17. I find that I have frequent nocturnal emissions. I am 23 years old. Will this affect my sperm
count and is it normal. I am worried.
Sweet dreams and you won’t even remember the dreams except to find wet sticky patches on
the sheets. This is nature’s way of flushing out stale semen and replenishing with new. You
know some 70,000 sperms are created every minute and if they are not got rid of frequently
then there is going to be an awful lot of those little fellows running around with nothing to do.
So do not worry about your sperm count.
18. Is it normal to get erections during the day?
Of course it is normal especially when a boy is going through the pangs of puberty. Erections are
often caused by sexual arousal many erections are caused by sexual arousal. But if you get
erections when caught in certain embarrassing situation there's no need to get hung over and
worry that something is wrong with you. What is more you may also get erections at night
without you being aware. These are called “Wet Dreams” and are as normal as can be naturally.
19. I can’t do without sex. I have sex as and when I can get it and 25 days in the month is on
par. Can I have sex all through the month?
You remember that old saying “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy?” In your case it will be
“All sex and no rest makes Jack limp and dull.” Take a little time off now and then and you will
find you are feeling rejuvenated and even more interested in sex. You like reading books? Going
the round of the museums? Expand your mind and you will be even more imaginative when it
comes to sex.
20. Will masturbating hurt?
It is not supposed to. But you tend to get sore if you have been using your penis like a machine.
Try using a water-soluble lubricant. The only way masturbation can hurt is if you are it all the
time that you discover that you have no social life let alone having a bath.
21. I had unprotected sex with a lady I picked up in a bar. I am 24 years. I used a condom but
left the condom in while withdrawing. Do you think I will get HIV or STD. Am I safe and should
get myself tested?
You are what I would call an adventurous soul! I suggest that you get yourself checked pronto
and talk to a dermatologist, will you?
22. Is it normal for the skin of the scrotum to get darker?
Of course, it is normal. What do you want it be, scarlet like a Mandrill’s you know what? The
scrotum gets darker as you change from a boy to an adult. Darkening of the skin over the
scrotum is actually one of the first steps of puberty. This occurs at the same time the skin over
the testicles changes from a smooth appearance to a more rough appearance (called stippling). It
is also during this time that the testicles will be to enlarge. And this will be followed by the
growth of pubic hair, hair under the armpits, larger muscles and the growth of the penis. All this
will take as puberty proceeds on its natural course, determined by genetic traits inherited from
parents etc.
23. My girlfriend is put off my oral sex and says it’s dirty. I know I cannot force but how do I
make her understand that it is alright. Is there anything I can do to make her change her mind?
You can try telling her that the penis and the vagina are cleaner than certain other parts of the
body. There are more germs in the human mouth than elsewhere. All this balderdash about the
vagina being dirty comes from the menstruation myths. I am sure she will understand if you were
to explain to her clearly.
24. I am a 26-year-old man. My chest looks like a female’s breasts. I am very embarrassed. I
can’t go swimming or anything like that. I read somewhere that this problem of male breasts
can be operated. Is this true?
Yes, it can be operated and I suggest you to see a doctor who after checking may refer you to a
cosmetic surgeon.
25. I love wearing ladies dress. I am a 28-year-old single man. Will this affect me or my married
life?
You know all those tough firefighters? I am told that many of them wear their wives’ panties
because they more comfortable and these guys have to work in heat when fighting a fire. A soft
undie is better than the thick cotton ones that men normally wear. So relax. But it is possible
that your future wife may look askance if she keeps you buying sexy, frilly lingerie and then
wearing it yourself!!! Read More...
1. Are there any long-term effects of masturbating? Will I still be able to father children?
You bet there are!!! That, you are in love with yourself. Have you given it a name yet? Surely in
this day and age you must know that there are long terms or short term effects of masturbation.
Take the great Roman era of philosophy and you had all these extraordinary thinkers sitting in
the Senate and being masturbated during a typical Roman orgy and these guys then went home
and wrote lines like: Nec scit qua sit iter. That’s from Ovid’s Metamorphoses II and means’ He
knows not which way to turn…!” But then there are people who never masturbate who are ever
ready to shy away from their penises, or vaginas like the slated snail. Then there are others who
do it a couple of times a day and some who a couple of times a year just to keep in touch for old
times sake. And some who can’t stop. If you think that when couples get married they stop, you
would be wrong. There are many who enjoy mutual masturbation. None of the masturbators
have gone round the bend, they are as normal as can be. Yeah, even if you masturbate regularly
you can still produce healthy sperm.
2. Am I going to get AIDS if I'm gay?
You do not have to gay to be AIDs. It is typecasting to say that AIDs is linked to gays. In fact
men having sex with men (MSMs) are at a higher risk. It’s just that having multiple partners and
certain types of sexual activity places you at a greater risk of acquiring AIDS. Any of those listed
can cause AIDS:
• Anal sex, • Vaginal sex • Sharing sex toys
Some gay men as well as some straight men and women have anal sex which can be a high risk
activity. Using a condom protects you from HIV and other STI's.
3. I nicked my penis while shaving my pubic hair; does it increase my chances of Sexually
Transmitted Infection’s (STI's)?
Why on earth didn’t you use one of those modern razors that are supposed to prevent nicks?
Yes, a nick on your penis can put you at risk because bacteria and other viruses can make a
beeline to that little nick and make life miserable for you. You could get a nasty infection or
worse. Time to get out that carton of condoms out and use them when having oral, anal or
vaginal sex and you will have less chances of picking up an STI... Better safe than sorry, I always
say.
4. What is the right thickness of a penis for satisfactory sex? If it so, how do I get to be as
thick. Do you think there are special exercises to keep my penis in good condition?
I think you are a bit thick to be asking this question. It is all in the technique and a lot of
foreplay, and size does not matter. Exercises? You can’t walk into a gym and ask for equipment.
There is no such thing as an exercise for the penis. There are expensive operations to thicken
the penis and they are not worth it. Like the guy who had silicone gel sheaths implanted and
then one day while things were getting into the Third Base Stage, the silicon slipped and got
stuck on the underside of the penis and the guy was left with an organ that looked like a
turnip!!!
5. I m bullied because of my Penis size.
These things happen. Calvin gets bullied all the time in school but that kid has attitude and he
has Hobbies. But if a boy is being bullied then it is wise to see what is meant by being bullied, if
it just plain school field rough and tumble then nothing is gained by cosseting the boy but If it
worse ,then a talk with an adult or a school teacher or the coach will work wonders.
6. Will I get HIV if I have or give oral sex? If I smooch a person who has HIV, will I get infected?
Are condoms 100 % effective against HIV? I am worried.
The answer is yes to two of your questions and no to the last. If there are blisters or cuts in
your mouth than there is every possibility of getting infected in a long smooch. Either fellatio or
cunnilingus with a person who is already infected puts you at high risk. A condom is no
guarantee against an HIV strain, so watch it.
7. What is the average size of the human testis? Does variation in size matter in sperm
production? I did not consult anyone in this regard...nor any test done.
Research exploring the relationship between testis size and sperm production indicate that in
those men with normal sperm production the length of the testis should be greater than 4 cms.
And volume greater than 20 ml. On an average, the adult testis measures 4.5 cm x 2.8 cm. Minor
variations in size may not show noticeable changes in spermatogenesis, but on the whole,
decreased testis size or volume is often associated with impaired sperm production .Please
remember that spermatogenesis depends on many other factors, so that men with identical
testis size do not necessarily produce sperm with identical properties.
8. I am 26 years old. I have sex with my wife three or four times in the day. Is excessive sex
bad? Are we getting addicted to sex? Then I don’t want my wife to pregnant just yet may be
after a couple of years. What do we do?
Relax, it’s no big deal. Your desire to go at it like a pair of rabbits will come down to three or
four times a week. If you don’t want her to get pregnant, then one of you must use one of the
many contraceptive methods. I suggest you talk to your gynecologist. Meanwhile a condom and a
vaginal pessary will do the needful and stop that poor sperm from making any headway.
9. If a girl doesn't have an orgasm is there a possibility of her becoming pregnant?
You think when she doesn’t moan and squirm and wrap her legs around your neck and attempt
to strangle you, she won’t become pregnant? You are one misguided Joe. Orgasm has nothing to
do with becoming pregnant and all it requires is for some per-ejaculate semen to cause a
pregnancy.
10. Can it be said that I masturbate too much?
Are you in training for some Olympiad? If you have been ignoring your friends, your daily showers
and your pizzas, then we can safely come to the conclusion that you are indeed masturbating
too much. Hope this is not the case with you.
11. We have been married for 13 years and my wife now complains that she never had an
orgasm. Extending foreplay for an hour has not helped and she also says that my penis which is
about six inches long when erect is the problem. But she has an orgasm when she masturbates.
This is bugging me. What am I supposed to do?
Stimulate her till orgasms by using your fingers. Then see if you can give her an orgasm through
sex. If you have finished earlier, use your finger again to stimulate her. A lot of women reach
orgasm through masturbation.
12. I think I ejaculate less, there is very little semen when I masturbate. I am only 24 years
old. Am I headed towards impotency?
No, you are not going to become impotent. As far as the quantity is concerned there are several
factors like the periods of abstinence, hormone levels and age. As you grow older, the color of
semen changes from white to light yellow and the quantity may decrease. But color and quantity
have nothing to do with the virility of an individual.
13. I am getting married very soon and I am in my 30s. I think my penis is slightly deformed.
Will this hamper my sex life?
It is normal for a penis to be bent slightly to one side and there is nothing wrong with it. It is
natural and will in no way hamper your sex life. If you are still in doubt you can always see a
specialist.
14. I am very interested in sex and I ejaculate quickly after masturbation. Too quickly, I think.
Is there anything I should do?
Who isn’t interested in sex? Right from the days when man learnt to speak and grunt, “How
about it, baby,” sex has been on the mind of every red-blooded male. Unless he is past it and
can only look and wonder! Premature ejaculation could be the result of getting a little too
excited but tends to go away by itself after a couple of years of marriage or as you grow a little
older and wiser! Relax, the more you worry the more the problem will persist. Let nature take
care of things for a while.
15. Being around women gives me an erection. Even walking along with a woman becomes an
embarrassing problem. I am 30 years old. What do I do?
You are one horny, red-necked hustler, that’s for sure. Who is your tailor? If Konrad Lorenz was
given your case file or even Desmond Morris, then they would have said that you have not made
the transition from ape to man. Maybe you are the Missing Link! “Hyper-excitable and
repressive” the shrinks would have chortled. Human sexual response differs from animal sexual
response. It is the advanced brain that controls these responses in you. Perhaps you also have
had problems in your very early sexual grounding and ways of conditioning Have you tried taking
up some hobby , maybe good feminist suffragette literature ought to calm you down. Also try
masturbating often. That ought to keep you down.
16. If I get circumcised will I be protected against HIV?
Nope, it does not make you as invulnerable as Spiderman or the Hulk, to HIV. But it is less likely
to happen.
17. I find that I have frequent nocturnal emissions. I am 23 years old. Will this affect my sperm
count and is it normal. I am worried.
Sweet dreams and you won’t even remember the dreams except to find wet sticky patches on
the sheets. This is nature’s way of flushing out stale semen and replenishing with new. You
know some 70,000 sperms are created every minute and if they are not got rid of frequently
then there is going to be an awful lot of those little fellows running around with nothing to do.
So do not worry about your sperm count.
18. Is it normal to get erections during the day?
Of course it is normal especially when a boy is going through the pangs of puberty. Erections are
often caused by sexual arousal many erections are caused by sexual arousal. But if you get
erections when caught in certain embarrassing situation there's no need to get hung over and
worry that something is wrong with you. What is more you may also get erections at night
without you being aware. These are called “Wet Dreams” and are as normal as can be naturally.
19. I can’t do without sex. I have sex as and when I can get it and 25 days in the month is on
par. Can I have sex all through the month?
You remember that old saying “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy?” In your case it will be
“All sex and no rest makes Jack limp and dull.” Take a little time off now and then and you will
find you are feeling rejuvenated and even more interested in sex. You like reading books? Going
the round of the museums? Expand your mind and you will be even more imaginative when it
comes to sex.
20. Will masturbating hurt?
It is not supposed to. But you tend to get sore if you have been using your penis like a machine.
Try using a water-soluble lubricant. The only way masturbation can hurt is if you are it all the
time that you discover that you have no social life let alone having a bath.
21. I had unprotected sex with a lady I picked up in a bar. I am 24 years. I used a condom but
left the condom in while withdrawing. Do you think I will get HIV or STD. Am I safe and should
get myself tested?
You are what I would call an adventurous soul! I suggest that you get yourself checked pronto
and talk to a dermatologist, will you?
22. Is it normal for the skin of the scrotum to get darker?
Of course, it is normal. What do you want it be, scarlet like a Mandrill’s you know what? The
scrotum gets darker as you change from a boy to an adult. Darkening of the skin over the
scrotum is actually one of the first steps of puberty. This occurs at the same time the skin over
the testicles changes from a smooth appearance to a more rough appearance (called stippling). It
is also during this time that the testicles will be to enlarge. And this will be followed by the
growth of pubic hair, hair under the armpits, larger muscles and the growth of the penis. All this
will take as puberty proceeds on its natural course, determined by genetic traits inherited from
parents etc.
23. My girlfriend is put off my oral sex and says it’s dirty. I know I cannot force but how do I
make her understand that it is alright. Is there anything I can do to make her change her mind?
You can try telling her that the penis and the vagina are cleaner than certain other parts of the
body. There are more germs in the human mouth than elsewhere. All this balderdash about the
vagina being dirty comes from the menstruation myths. I am sure she will understand if you were
to explain to her clearly.
24. I am a 26-year-old man. My chest looks like a female’s breasts. I am very embarrassed. I
can’t go swimming or anything like that. I read somewhere that this problem of male breasts
can be operated. Is this true?
Yes, it can be operated and I suggest you to see a doctor who after checking may refer you to a
cosmetic surgeon.
25. I love wearing ladies dress. I am a 28-year-old single man. Will this affect me or my married
life?
You know all those tough firefighters? I am told that many of them wear their wives’ panties
because they more comfortable and these guys have to work in heat when fighting a fire. A soft
undie is better than the thick cotton ones that men normally wear. So relax. But it is possible
that your future wife may look askance if she keeps you buying sexy, frilly lingerie and then
wearing it yourself!!! Read More...
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